It’s Playground weekend in Toronto, and I am super excited to see the return of my local sexuality conference. Education… Read more The Unoffical Kink Track at Playground
A crucial part of creating a scene with a positive outcome is risk management – doing what you can to make sure things don’t go awry.When we start asking these questions, we can come up with solutions to mitigate the risks with which we are about to engage.
How do I know if my D/s dynamic is a healthy one? It’s a question I get often asked- sometimes… Read more How Do You Know if Your BDSM Dynamic is Healthy?
And it is this trust that creates the foundation of epic play; when you and your partner created a container of experience. A container rooted deeply in desire, supported by the assurance that everyone is doing exactly what they want to be doing right now.
Heya! Having made it through the last term alive and a road trip that brought back my spirit (Lexington, you… Read more Summer Teaching Schedule
What the fuck does being an amazing bottom even mean?! What is going on in kink that this phrase is… Read more On Being an Amazing Bottom
What if consensual nonconsent didn’t have to be about taking? What if it was simply never having access to a… Read more Playing with Consensual Nonconsent Through Objectification
Everyone needs something to feel safe. Whether or not you’re aware of that and what those things depends a lot… Read more Boundary Basics: What do you Need to Feel Safe?
Sometimes it seems like Pick Up Play gets a bad rap. Whether it’s the puritanical I just need connection with… Read more How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Just Love Pick Up Play
One of the reasons I have more sympathy for those of us on the organizing side now is because I understand a truth that I didn’t before: you can’t really control who gives you authority.