One of the reasons I have more sympathy for those of us on the organizing side now is because I understand a truth that I didn’t before: you can’t really control who gives you authority.
I wanna be perfectly honest with you. I’m sick – sick – of the majority of consent conversations out there.… Read more The Next Consent Conversation
Before I made the switch over to Sexuality Empowerment Coach and after I was just this girl, who does this… Read more How I learned to Stop Worrying and Love Agitating
Hey White people. Yep – I’m talking to you; and I really hope that instead clicking ‘x’ because you’re too… Read more This is Not Okay.
It’s kinda funny. You go to spend a weekend talking about sex and sexuality, but what do you actually talk… Read more Playground Afterglow – the Final Thoughts
It’s easier than you think. Big news in these parts lately is the RCMP officer who has come under fire… Read more So you want to be a Kink Advocate?
I don’t write about upcoming events a lot – there’s a time factor and distance issue that I feel make… Read more Whatcha doing this weekend?
Slow down, do things thoughtfully, with purpose and intention. One of my goals for rest of 2011 is to practice… Read more Practicing Mindfulness in Kink
There should really only be one criteria by which any of us judges our sexuality, erotic lives and the related… Read more I love When Somebody says it Better: