How do I know if my D/s dynamic is a healthy one? It’s a question I get often asked- sometimes… Read more How Do You Know if Your BDSM Dynamic is Healthy?
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I joked rather derisively the other night about what I’ve come to nickname the rigger sniff: that moment where the… Read more Why You Can’t Teach Connection
Last week saw me squired away with 60-odd sex geeks in the mountainous wilds of West Virginia, and while I knew… Read more Unexpected Lessons in Power Exchange
Temporary submission can be based on a lot of things. Passion, fear, respect, lust, trust, boredom, loyalty – whatever reason… Read more Don’t Settle with Your Submission
Did your new boyfriend just tell you he likes it when women dominate him? Did the gurl you’re seeing just… Read more When Someone you Like is Kinky