One of the reasons I have more sympathy for those of us on the organizing side now is because I understand a truth that I didn’t before: you can’t really control who gives you authority.
So Meatlist. Think about that. Not even Women of Fetlife, or People on FL, but Meat. Actually stripped of personhood,… Read more Humanity, Privacy and Empathy
It’s not the first time I’ve been presented these two words like they’re complete opposites of a coin, only one… Read more Here’s One For You: Spontaneity vs Consent
I woke up to our local Police Chief discussing gun violence in the wake of 2 shooting deaths yesterday. He… Read more Expanding Vocabularies or Why Heather Rarely Teaches the Same Class Twice
I wanna be perfectly honest with you. I’m sick – sick – of the majority of consent conversations out there.… Read more The Next Consent Conversation
Before I made the switch over to Sexuality Empowerment Coach and after I was just this girl, who does this… Read more How I learned to Stop Worrying and Love Agitating
This past winter I tripped down to Dark Odyssey’s Winter Fire, a hotel take-over weekend in Washington, DC. It was… Read more My Identity is Not a Challenge.
I sent a lust-note to a special soul today. I got permission first and promised not to be wildly insulting.… Read more Who Exactly am I Insulting?
I came across a fantastic article the other day that I wanted to signal boost; UN-MEMORIZING THE “SILENCE IS SEXY”… Read more “Silence is Sexy” vs Opt-in Consent & BDSM
I semi-joked the other day about making a Care and Feeding of The Heather user guide. I say semi because… Read more Care and Feeding Guides – When Know Thyself becomes Excuse Thyself