So Meatlist. Think about that. Not even Women of Fetlife, or People on FL, but Meat. Actually stripped of personhood,… Read more Humanity, Privacy and Empathy
I wanna be perfectly honest with you. I’m sick – sick – of the majority of consent conversations out there.… Read more The Next Consent Conversation
Recently I had the privilege of participating in Playground, Toronto’s annual sexuality conference. The Conference sets itself a big mandate;… Read more [My] Feminism & BDSM
I met a girl this weekend…. well, we were never actually introduced, but I’m pretty sure her name started with… Read more Consent in Action: I Didn’t Kiss a Pretty Girl This Weekend
The following is a reposing of a note I shared on FetLife earlier this week. Unlike FL, I can moderate… Read more Sometimes, I’m not the person to talk to
I sent a lust-note to a special soul today. I got permission first and promised not to be wildly insulting.… Read more Who Exactly am I Insulting?
Personally, I think the mainstream growing coverage of kink, bdsm, non-monogamy, and various alternative sexual models is overall positive thing. … Read more So you Want to be a Kink Advocate Part 2: Living the Change you Want to see.
This weekend I found myself absolutely thrilled to attend and participate in Playground this weekend here in Toronto. As always… Read more Somebody says it Better: Service-Oriented doesn’t mean Free Labor
One day, when I was 13, my mother and I went to the mall to look for new school clothes.… Read more Things that Resonate: Sexual Gaze