A crucial part of creating a scene with a positive outcome is risk management – doing what you can to make sure things don’t go awry.When we start asking these questions, we can come up with solutions to mitigate the risks with which we are about to engage.
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It would be nice, wouldn’t it, if our needs matched up nicely with things we’re good at? I realized on… Read more Another Piece Goes Click: Care, Negotiations and Self Acceptance.