One of the reasons I have more sympathy for those of us on the organizing side now is because I understand a truth that I didn’t before: you can’t really control who gives you authority.
So Meatlist. Think about that. Not even Women of Fetlife, or People on FL, but Meat. Actually stripped of personhood,… Read more Humanity, Privacy and Empathy
Before I made the switch over to Sexuality Empowerment Coach and after I was just this girl, who does this… Read more How I learned to Stop Worrying and Love Agitating
Q: I’m newish to kink; long enough to know where I want to start exploring. Not long enough that I’d… Read more Q&A: Is Being Just me Enough?
You need an opposite. That’s how these things work… right? Submissives match with Dominants. Masochists match with Sadists. But Sadists? … Read more S is for Scared
It’s easier than you think. Big news in these parts lately is the RCMP officer who has come under fire… Read more So you want to be a Kink Advocate?
Consider that rhetorical question. If you’re reading this, I assume you are one. And that means you need to grow… Read more Are we, or are we not Adults?
The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others – Gandhi For those who feel the… Read more Service Motivation
AKA: Shit Happens While at TEASE this past weekend I found myself in a scene that got out of hand. … Read more Negotiation Fail
Two weeks ago Toronto held its third GrUE, and I attended my second GrUE. My experience this year was totally… Read more It is pitch black. You are likely to be eaten by a Grue.