Everyone needs something to feel safe. Whether or not you’re aware of that and what those things depends a lot… Read more Boundary Basics: What do you Need to Feel Safe?
Last week saw me squired away with 60-odd sex geeks in the mountainous wilds of West Virginia, and while I knew… Read more Unexpected Lessons in Power Exchange
ca·noo·dle kəˈno͞odl/ verb informal kiss and cuddle amorously “They were canoodling in the corner“ Sometimes figuring out who’s okay to… Read more Poly Pro Tip: Never interupt a Canoodole
If you’ve ever been to one of my flirting or pick up play classes (or, yanno, had any sort of… Read more Awww Yeah – Targeted Marketing!
I met a girl this weekend…. well, we were never actually introduced, but I’m pretty sure her name started with… Read more Consent in Action: I Didn’t Kiss a Pretty Girl This Weekend
Q: I’m newish to kink; long enough to know where I want to start exploring. Not long enough that I’d… Read more Q&A: Is Being Just me Enough?
I’m curious about kink but I don’t know where to start. I know about FetLife – but that’s all a… Read more Q&A Telling a Lover You’re Kinky