How do I know if my D/s dynamic is a healthy one? It’s a question I get often asked- sometimes… Read more How Do You Know if Your BDSM Dynamic is Healthy?
Everyone needs something to feel safe. Whether or not you’re aware of that and what those things depends a lot… Read more Boundary Basics: What do you Need to Feel Safe?
It’s not the first time I’ve been presented these two words like they’re complete opposites of a coin, only one… Read more Here’s One For You: Spontaneity vs Consent
I woke up to our local Police Chief discussing gun violence in the wake of 2 shooting deaths yesterday. He… Read more Expanding Vocabularies or Why Heather Rarely Teaches the Same Class Twice
I wanna be perfectly honest with you. I’m sick – sick – of the majority of consent conversations out there.… Read more The Next Consent Conversation
I met a girl this weekend…. well, we were never actually introduced, but I’m pretty sure her name started with… Read more Consent in Action: I Didn’t Kiss a Pretty Girl This Weekend
I came across a fantastic article the other day that I wanted to signal boost; UN-MEMORIZING THE “SILENCE IS SEXY”… Read more “Silence is Sexy” vs Opt-in Consent & BDSM